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Does anyone also feel that ‘grand-childlessness’ is an under talked aspect of the birth rate problem? I know an elderly woman who’s a little heartbroken that her kids (all in their late 40s) never had children and that she never got to be a grandmother.

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For the last 300 years humanity has effectively been doing a million meter sprint in terms of technologically innovating without ever taking a breath. An individual human needs to take a breath after a long sprint so why wouldn’t human civilisation as a whole?

In some ways I think the fertility crisis is gonna be that breath that humanity takes since it’ll hamper technological advancement for quite a while. We’ve been ‘progress-maxing’ for about 300 years will little time to adapt to changes.

In some ways I think technology innovating too fast like it is now is actually anti-natalist in the sense that it causes too much of a generation gap in the utility of life wisdom. Right now, Gen X parents have nothing to say to their Gen Z kids in terms of advice regarding navigating the new digital world because it came to be so fast, leaving Gen X’s life experiences and life advice useless and redundant to tell to their kids outside of basics.

I think there’s an optimal rate of technological change that is pro-natalist but that’s not what we have now. Our rate of technological progress is too fast and as a result it makes people become too obsolete too quickly and far harder for different generations to connect to each other, leading to lots of inter generational resentment. I don’t think it’s a surprise millennials/Gen Z have such contempt for baby boomers when they effectively grew up in two different universes and Boomer life advice is completely obsolete to them which from the perspective of millennial kids make their boomer parents seem insensitive and for boomer parents it makes them think their millennial kids are ungrateful. And both are kind of right about each other in a way. It’s impossible for the boomers to NOT come off as insensitive when they’ll never understand growing up with the internet and its impossible for millennials to not come off as ungrateful when they can’t accept that their boomer parents genuinely don’t know what they’re doing wrong because well…they’re boomers.

As a Gen Z young man, I actually feel the inter generational resentment younger generations of the future will have for us will be far greater than the generational resentment we have against boomers due to the fertility crisis and this will put us in a bad spot since it’ll be happening as we grow old. Ironically we could end up being seen exactly like the boomers. The whole ‘zoomer’ synonym makes a lot more sense now.

In the past childless people had connections to younger generations through their sibling’s children in the form of their nephews and nieces. But in the 21st century if you have a family of three kids and all become childless, first that bloodline is ended but second, they’ll have no connection to the next generations of kids.

Anyway, happy to see in you post more frequently Louise again. Will we go back to 2 podcast episodes per week again soon?

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